First, in order to indicate interest in a person, pay attention to the person, such as greeting him/her whenever he/she is in the same room, making contact, including the person in invitations to events.
When getting to know a person, also request to get to know the person’s contacts in order to get to the know the person through his/her contacts, and to get to know more contacts.
When conversing with someone, make discussions mutual, by focusing both on oneself and the other person, not having monologues. Do not go through a checklist of questions to see how the person fits into one’s agenda. Rather, let information come out voluntarily by showing interest in the other person. See if one fits the other person’s needs.
When meeting someone, review appearance to show that one has respect for him/herself and for the other person he/she is meeting. During the appointment, focus on the other person by ridding distractions such as cell phones, or talking to other people who may pass by. At the end of the meeting, let the other person know how one feels about the connection.
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